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Wednesday, April 15, 2009

How to Get Over if You Have Been Dumped

By Ricardo d Argence

The mind cannot be closed to emotions even though we wish to forget certain harsh memories and carry on the path without thinking about the negativities that we had gone through. However, it's not that easy.

There are many distractions from the loneliness and pain you are going through.

A break from your ex is much needed. Unless it is absolutely impossible to avoid your ex, you need to stay away.

These unavoidable situations include working at the same job or going to the same classes. Thinking that you can just be friends won't help get your ex back or fill the void that is left in your heart.

You have to stop any contacts with her if you want to stop thinking about her. A period of separation can be very beneficial to the relationship if you are brought back together.

Get some friends together and go do something fun for the night. There's nothing like hanging out with your closest friends and even for several straight nights can be just what you need and make you forget a good portion of the break up pain you're feeling.

But be careful about how much alcohol you drink, as it can lead to actions that wouldn't be for the best, such as drunken phone calls in the deep of the night!

As you and your friends are out enjoying yourselves you're surely going to attract the attention of other girls. Don't worry, this is perfectly ok. There's no need to feel guilty about this, in fact, it's good to enjoy the company of hot girls. They make you feel that you're wanted again and that living life without your ex isn't going to be as miserable and terrible as you thought it might be.

Dating them is certainly not a requirement, but flirting and enjoying hanging out with some hot and sexy girls can bring your life up a level to not feeling as bad.

Make a list of all of the things that you could do that would help you get over the pain of your break up. Finding a new hobby, working out, a night out with your friends are great things to do to help you deal with the pain, but they are also great things to do to get your girl back. If you are looking to have your ex back in your life, please look at the link below.

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