There are many Russian women looking for western men swarming the internet today. Some are high quality women with adorable smiles, beautiful bodies, and brains to match any educated man. Yet, what you will discover very quickly is that trying to get these women to trust you and give you a real chance at establishing a relationship can be very tough.
Why is this? Why would a woman go online looking for love and then shoot down a lot of the men that approach them with interest? It all comes down to the mistakes that too many western men make when trying to initially attract these women.
When you talk to a Russian woman today you are talking with an educated, smart, woman who has a lot more going for her than just her beauty. She is a tough fish to catch, and rightly so. That is what makes her worth the effort, right? The trick is you have to learn the mistakes that other men make to turn that woman off, so you can do it right.
Getting familiar with a few of the biggest mistakes men make when looking for love online will help you to avoid them and be more successful in your own search for Russian love.
Moving too Fast: many men meet a beautiful Russian online and start talking about coming to meet her face to face or even start discussing the possibility of marriage. This is very unattractive to a woman you barely know, so slow it down. Treat her as you would a first date in the real world. You wouldn't propose over the very first date out, would you?
Even if she is thinking you may be marriage material, she is not going to discuss that until she really knows more about you. You have to reveal who you are and what that life would be like if she were to get serious with you. Without some deeper familiarity the talk about marriage or anything very serious should be put off.
Get to know her first and she will let you know if her mind starts wandering to something more serious.
Talking Sexy: you don't want to start talking about sex right away. Even commenting on the sexual allure of a woman will be a turn off to most if she is not very comfortable talking with you. If you go to sex too soon you will give off the impression that you only want that from her, and that is a definite way to turn her off and get the virtual door slammed in your face. Wait for her to become more comfortable and the sexual issues will come up naturally when it is appropriate and comfortable for you both.
Family Bashing: Russians are extremely devoted to their families. Ask a lot of questions about her family and how she lives, but never say anything negative against them. It is common for Russian women to completely shun a man who her family does not approve of, so tread carefully on the family subjects.
Russian women looking for western men are much like any other woman. They want to be respected, cherished and loved. The difference is they don't have to settle and are harder to actually catch.
Why is this? Why would a woman go online looking for love and then shoot down a lot of the men that approach them with interest? It all comes down to the mistakes that too many western men make when trying to initially attract these women.
When you talk to a Russian woman today you are talking with an educated, smart, woman who has a lot more going for her than just her beauty. She is a tough fish to catch, and rightly so. That is what makes her worth the effort, right? The trick is you have to learn the mistakes that other men make to turn that woman off, so you can do it right.
Getting familiar with a few of the biggest mistakes men make when looking for love online will help you to avoid them and be more successful in your own search for Russian love.
Moving too Fast: many men meet a beautiful Russian online and start talking about coming to meet her face to face or even start discussing the possibility of marriage. This is very unattractive to a woman you barely know, so slow it down. Treat her as you would a first date in the real world. You wouldn't propose over the very first date out, would you?
Even if she is thinking you may be marriage material, she is not going to discuss that until she really knows more about you. You have to reveal who you are and what that life would be like if she were to get serious with you. Without some deeper familiarity the talk about marriage or anything very serious should be put off.
Get to know her first and she will let you know if her mind starts wandering to something more serious.
Talking Sexy: you don't want to start talking about sex right away. Even commenting on the sexual allure of a woman will be a turn off to most if she is not very comfortable talking with you. If you go to sex too soon you will give off the impression that you only want that from her, and that is a definite way to turn her off and get the virtual door slammed in your face. Wait for her to become more comfortable and the sexual issues will come up naturally when it is appropriate and comfortable for you both.
Family Bashing: Russians are extremely devoted to their families. Ask a lot of questions about her family and how she lives, but never say anything negative against them. It is common for Russian women to completely shun a man who her family does not approve of, so tread carefully on the family subjects.
Russian women looking for western men are much like any other woman. They want to be respected, cherished and loved. The difference is they don't have to settle and are harder to actually catch.
About the Author:
Mark De Schutter is the webmaster of a Russian dating service called "Russian Dating Live". This is an internet dating service for men who would wish to get in contact Russian brides who are serious about marriage to foreign men.
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