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Wednesday, May 20, 2009

Is American Divorce Getting Better or Worse?

By Benjamin West

Throughout the country, divorce rates continue to increase, so much so that more than fifty percent of all marriages now end in divorce. Recent statistics show the marriage rate in the U.S. as 7.5 per 1,000 of the U.S. population and the divorce rate as 3.6 per 1,000 population.

Every person renders an opinion concerning the truth behind this. Clergy members, sociologists, medical professionals, lawyers and everyday people all have theories about the reasons. Economic realities, changing family roles, no-fault laws, liberalized sexual attitudes, and changes in religious practices all play a role.

In truth, there is probably no one reason why such a high percentage of marriages dissolve.We just know it's become a part of the scene. It is normal to be a single parent rather than an exception. Nevertheless, marital breakups bring feelings of stress and uncertainty to individuals and put added strains on communities and society in general.

Some of the main reasons cited for marital breakups are kids, in-laws and money. Is it any wonder these are the very areas of family life that are most disrupted when a marriage ends?

In these tiring times people organize visitation schedules and shared guardianship in order to use quality time with their children. Younger kids are stressed trying to understand what happened and why. Teenagers have an understanding of what is going on and may not be able to handle it. Family may try to help out but actually cause more problems by taking sides. With legal fees and changing obligations, family finances are likely to be strained in one way or another.

Other commonly stated reasons are incompatibility or irreconcilable differences. These cover a range of situations, from "I changed my mind," to "I found someone I prefer," to "I don't know what I want.Only the husband and wife know what it means.

With so many families broken, it is interesting to ask why so many people still get married. Finding a life partner remains a major goal for most people. The bridal industry remains healthy despite the current recession. Even if they have been living together for many years that still have a desire to be married. We admire long-lasting marriages and we speak admirably of people who demonstrate close family relationships. Despite the statistical trend, Americans do believe in marriage.

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